Maintance in the Morning

  Recently I have been feeling a little out of sorts. I feel very strongly that it would help
if we started a regular schedule of maintance spankings in the mornings. This has helped tremendously in the past. I will admit that sometimes I just have a better day if I have went OTK. I have to say that this is for the part of me that can not stop sticking out my bottom lip or taking a in a sharp deep huffy breath (yes I do that). I think that this is going to be highly effective and can not wait for it to start. I have asked that we use the same intensity as punishment just not the severity and length. I want be taken above my comfort zone and reminded that I am lucky to have DD. I know when my husband is upset with me and I definitely know when hes not.

Yes Sir!

In the beginning of our DD relationsip it was decided by my husband that the proper use of name calling LOL would be required of me,  I know that to some this probably seemed the most natural thing in the world. This was not so in my world. I still feel a little funny about it. When I am in trouble so to speak, addressing him as sir does come easier. I have given it great thought as to why it is difficult for me. the only thing I have came up with is I feel more like a little girl and that scares me I do not like to feel vulnerable I am however learning that it does deepen my submission. I hope to have it all figured soon and while I am at it I hope to also figure out why water is wet and the sky is up. I hope that everyone is enjoying their weekrnds and holidays. Oh and a little note to all I have a new computer and new mouse in which I am getting used to hence the typo's

This is also how I feel about The Paddle.

Do You Like Your Spouse

My Husband has been working at his new job now for about 5 months.
He is becoming aquainted with his fellow employees and they are all men.
There is one woman where he works and I think that it is probably due to the job requirements.
He spends alot of time at work and men evidently do talk. My husband and I are defnitely not
spokespeople for CDD or advocates either. We are believers. Its that smple we are skeptical and
can say for sure not when it comes to DD. This last week me and him were casualy talking about our relationship when he told me that he was surprised at the number of guys he has talked to al week that do not get along with their wives. It really is sad we didnt think that was a choice. It seems natural to like your spouse. I think back to a time when we were not getting along and realize that I wold love ro tell these guys
about our experience with DD and maybe see if it would help them. I however am not positive that
it could help. My husband has made a few friends and did say that they do like their wives and have been married for 20 plus years. These are the guys that he has shared our secret with. And whom he converses with while away feom home. I can not wait until the day when I say  "We have been married 40 years". So for right now I settle on "He is my best friend" Not to bad I think to have to settle for that. I truly am blessed.