tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29472140840279840912024-03-04T18:28:04.516-09:30Assume The PositionA collection of Domestic Discipline information for couples thinking about entering into a DD relationship. This blog will hopefully serve as a Domestic Discipline Guide for starters.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger64125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-84411967439466549842011-06-30T01:49:00.005-09:302011-06-30T01:49:54.737-09:30Sex and The Single Girl<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Hence the picture I will honestly say I miss it. I would have loved a racier one. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I wish we could have stayed that way forever.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Didn't happen I am burning our journal I wish I had wine or better yet tequilla. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">And a stress relieving effin spanking but oh well there's always next year.</span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-79127190864091753542011-06-23T20:04:00.001-09:302011-06-23T20:04:40.858-09:30Single<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I am single, good news being I have met someone who is an experience strong HOH. I am thrilled he shares the same strict viewpoints as me. I have told him my need for submission and he has a need for domination Yeahh!<br />
I hope it is the soulmate i have been waiting for. Better yet he is a good dad.</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-77922134253020197302011-06-16T18:50:00.000-09:302011-06-16T18:51:18.411-09:30Hello Again FriendsHello followers just thought I would say hi.<br />
I am trying to ease back into blogging but I should probably just jump in.<br />
Me and the husband have detoured from DD and I miss it<br />
I would love all ideas on getting back to the program. Please tell me.<br />
I need all the ideas I can get...Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-75290317358743101332010-10-19T17:21:00.000-09:302010-10-19T17:21:11.537-09:30Maintance in the Morning Recently I have been feeling a little out of sorts. I feel very strongly that it would help<br />
if we started a regular schedule of maintance spankings in the mornings. This has helped tremendously in the past. I will admit that sometimes I just have a better day if I have went OTK. I have to say that this is for the part of me that can not stop sticking out my bottom lip or taking a in a sharp deep huffy breath (yes I do that). I think that this is going to be highly effective and can not wait for it to start. I have asked that we use the same intensity as punishment just not the severity and length. I want be taken above my comfort zone and reminded that I am lucky to have DD. I know when my husband is upset with me and I definitely know when hes not.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-86453381913380051422010-10-10T03:41:00.000-09:302010-10-10T03:41:59.216-09:30Yes Sir!In the beginning of our DD relationsip it was decided by my husband that the proper use of name calling LOL would be required of me, I know that to some this probably seemed the most natural thing in the world. This was not so in my world. I still feel a little funny about it. When I am in trouble so to speak, addressing him as sir does come easier. I have given it great thought as to why it is difficult for me. the only thing I have came up with is I feel more like a little girl and that scares me I do not like to feel vulnerable I am however learning that it does deepen my submission. I hope to have it all figured soon and while I am at it I hope to also figure out why water is wet and the sky is up. I hope that everyone is enjoying their weekrnds and holidays. Oh and a little note to all I have a new computer and new mouse in which I am getting used to hence the typo'sUnknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-91394737140353970082010-10-02T06:48:00.000-09:302010-10-02T06:48:01.772-09:30<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-2398779297176478882010-10-02T06:30:00.000-09:302010-10-02T06:30:52.919-09:30Do You Like Your SpouseMy Husband has been working at his new job now for about 5 months. <br />
He is becoming aquainted with his fellow employees and they are all men. <br />
There is one woman where he works and I think that it is probably due to the job requirements.<br />
He spends alot of time at work and men evidently do talk. My husband and I are defnitely not<br />
spokespeople for CDD or advocates either. We are believers. Its that smple we are skeptical and<br />
can say for sure not when it comes to DD. This last week me and him were casualy talking about our relationship when he told me that he was surprised at the number of guys he has talked to al week that do not get along with their wives. It really is sad we didnt think that was a choice. It seems natural to like your spouse. I think back to a time when we were not getting along and realize that I wold love ro tell these guys <br />
about our experience with DD and maybe see if it would help them. I however am not positive that <br />
it could help. My husband has made a few friends and did say that they do like their wives and have been married for 20 plus years. These are the guys that he has shared our secret with. And whom he converses with while away feom home. I can not wait until the day when I say "We have been married 40 years". So for right now I settle on "He is my best friend" Not to bad I think to have to settle for that. I truly am blessed.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-60903892889197976842010-08-27T14:09:00.000-09:302010-08-27T14:09:35.191-09:30Total TrustI knew I trusted my DH but like most wives I was not sure how much. I know now that it is complte.<br />
Over the last three weeks we have been living in highly stressed enviroment and I do not mean the everyday normal stress families have. Our son was injured while away for summer vacation and was recovering in another state. This of course has called complete upheaval at home and a change in every area. (I am happy to report he is home and well). We went to that other state got our son and got out of there. So as I was saying after arriving home I had a serious attitude and it needed some adjusting.I do not remember what that final comment was that I made to my DH but I do remember what happened next. I was stripped bent over the bed and told that he was going to tie me to the bed to do it. Of course I was nervous but not really worrying. However instead of rope he grabbed the role of duct tape and secured me into the perfect spanking position with my butt or I should say target awaiting. And did I mention the only implements used were ones that I would not wish on my worst enemy.I received alot of swats to the point that keeping track was useless There were a few times that it got so intense I was sure that he was never going to stop. Of course he did but not before he got his point across. I can honestly say that being dominated that way was a wake up call. My DH was so upset at my behavior that he had to Duct tape me to the bed for the full effect. During the spanking. I realized that my DH was doing the best thing for us and that I knew that although he was.going to hurt my sit spot alot he was not going to hurt me. I was on the other hand hurting everyone around me including myself and losing a grip on the total situation. It is times like that I am so happy I have him to take care of me.Those of you that know what I have understand my needs and desires. I am so glad I have this place to share this part of my life. I could not imagine trying to explain this to most of my friends or family I would never get them to understand that I need discipline and I am so happy and fulfilled. Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-46428975039294054992010-08-03T02:21:00.000-09:302010-08-03T02:21:29.648-09:30I asked For ItFor some reason when I get a spanking if I do not cry or come to the point where I say OMG ok stop pleeaasse oww owww owwwww. I need more. My <a class="zem_slink" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0410975/" rel="imdb nofollow" title="Desperate Housewives">DH</a> has come to realize this and is happy to help. I received a spanking the other night lets see Saturday night that I really left a lasting impression. I woke up Sunday morning and felt that I had been well spanked. I do not know what it is about this life that makes me want to tell everyone I know, maybe it is because so many people I come in contact with complain about the lack of intimacy in their marriage. It could also be the fact that spanking is a great deterrent to <a class="zem_slink" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce" rel="wikipedia nofollow" title="Divorce">divorce</a>. In the beginning I used to care about things like Why do I want to be spanked and am I a freak. The Only thing I think about now really is am I gonna be able to handle laying still submitting. So far I have had a few session that I consider over the top and I would not change them. I am using DD as a behavior management program. And I am Happy to report that it really is working.<br />
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She wants to make it like it used to be. I told her about DD and what it did and still<br />
does for me and my marriage. I believe in this lifestyle having the ability to help maintain<br />
the proper balance and I am telling her how to start DD. I have so many positive side effects<br />
that it is hard to not make DD sound like it is too good to be true. I was wondering<br />
what would be the most important things you would include when helping a friend<br />
initiate DD. Her marriage is not bad she just has some control issues she needs to address<br />
and I think that would strengthen her marriage alot.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-61202782481102237262010-07-28T02:34:00.000-09:302010-07-28T02:34:51.694-09:30Bargain HuntingI have found some internet sites that I would like to share.<br />
This really can come in handy when your HOH gives you a limit and from past experience<br />
you have learned that you better not go over that limit.<br />
First check here for money that may be owed to you.<br />
Missing Money- if a business owes you money and can not locate you<br />
the money goes to the stated unclaimed asset fund after a certain amount of time<br />
The website is the best way to find out if you have unclaimed assets. It is The National<br />
Association of Unclaimed Property Administrators which I personally never knew existed<br />
Their website is <a href="http://www.unclaimed.org/">www.unclaimed.org</a><br />
Next there is the Nationwide Online Police Auction site.<br />
Their address is <a href="http://www.propertyroom.com/">www.propertyroom.com</a> Here you can shop for bargains that are available<br />
when property is seized by the police.<br />
There is also the site for the U.S. Marshalls office which is <a href="http://www.bid4assets.com/">www.bid4assets.com</a> click on<br />
U.S. Marshalls.<br />
The U.S. Airlines unclaimed baggage site is another cool place to look for some bargains<br />
that address is <a href="http://www.unclaimedbaggage.com/">www.unclaimedbaggage.com</a> click on lets shop.<br />
And do not forget the U.S. Postal service also hold auctions every year at their Mail Recovery<br />
Centers in Atlanta, Georgia, and St. Paul Minnesota. I do not have their address yet. I will look.<br />
If you are looking for a home you may want to check out Freddie Mac which is officially<br />
The <a class="zem_slink" href="http://www.freddiemac.com/" rel="homepage nofollow" title="Freddie Mac">Federal Home Loan Mortgage Corporation</a>. Their website is <a href="http://www.homesteps.com/">www.homesteps.com</a> where<br />
you can browse their foreclosed homes listings. The Federal Government also has a<br />
site where they sell seized and surplus property it is <a href="http://www.propertydisposal.gsa.gov/property">www.propertydisposal.gsa.gov/property </a><br />
I have always wondered if you can really find good deals like a house for a thousand dollars LOL!<br />
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When I say this I mean that I am wanting to take our exchange of power<br />
up another level. I do not know why I feel this way. It could be all of the positive<br />
effects that it has on me and that it makes me feel so secure and content.<br />
I have never been as sure of anything in my life. Yesterday I texted my DH saying that I wanted him to<br />
be more dominate with me. It is like a door opened a crack and I am peeking out, when I want throw it open and walk through. I want more rules and I want him to be strict. For me DD changes the way I view things, my thought process is different than it used to be and I love it. I would never want to go back to a vanilla relationship. On that same note I told my DH that I wanted more. I eventually want him to tell me how to dress, wear my hair, I want him to exercise his authority often simply because he can. I want him to be confident knowing that in my eyes there will never be anyone who could ever replace him He holds my heart in his hands for eternity. <br />
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those really pointless messages. It is great. If I want to say something to him it is like he is right here. Not to mention pictures too. I can not believe I went this long without one. I really do feel more in touch with him. And there are some other really cool features on there. Like a GPS locator for each other and navigation. To bad it doesn't tell you which isle he is on in walmart. I think that relating to DD this is also a great communication tool. I still get a little shy about saying some things to him face to face now I can just work up enough nerve to hit send. I used to write him letters and then disappear while he read them. No more of that. <br />
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I thoroughly enjoy it. I am powerless when it comes to controlling his thrusts and when he<br />
grabs the back of my head I am aware that I am his to use as he wants and it is his pleasure<br />
I am to seek. One of my needs in our marriage is to be possesed. I need to feel owned,<br />
I am his property and I have given him full consent to use me for his needs. Some wives are<br />
made to perform oral sex as part of their punishment. That is where it can get tricky. Since I enjoy<br />
servicing him orally then pairing this with a spanking it would be pleasurable for me and defeat the<br />
purpose. I would then be more likely to repeat the behavior and not learn from it. Now pairing this<br />
with a good girl spanking and watch out! Hopefully my husband stumbles across this post and<br />
agrees with me. <br />
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Since it was Friday our kids decided they wanted to stay with their grandparents.<br />
This includes our youngest one who never wants to stay over. When it was time to<br />
go she kissed us and said see you tomorrow. We arrived home alone and I had every<br />
intention of asking for a spanking to improve my mood. I was still a bit uptight and<br />
wanted to release some nervous tension. Well I never got a chance to asking but....<br />
I did get spanked. My mouth has been the source of my displeasure alot lately.<br />
Anyways, I was told to get up come around to his side of the bed and take off my clothes.<br />
I was then told to kneel. Which I did. I was thinking that since he had stated earlier he was<br />
really tired there was no point in even asking for a spanking. Well after about 10 minutes on<br />
my knees he told me that I was going to be spanked and it was going to hurt, because<br />
I needed to learn the lesson he was trying to teach. (I need to listen and not talk over him)<br />
and I need to learn when he says to stop talking I need to stop. That is a hard one<br />
I love to have the last word. I am working on self control but this is a sore subject. I just can not<br />
seem to get it. Well he got out four implements and at this point I was getting nervous.<br />
When he came to that whip he asked what do you call this thing. (it is a homemade loopy john).<br />
Well I said a loopy john thingy. He said I call it a wire whip. I was in total agreement. All I care<br />
about at this point is the fact that this is the worst implement that we have. It is also the most effective.<br />
If I thought that I liked to be spanked I think I should go on to say this definitely makes me want to be<br />
good. And isn't that the goal. Well he did warm me up and for that I am thankful.<br />
He used the wooden spoon, hair brush, wire whip and this other black leather strap<br />
with finger or fringe on the end. The warm up was done by hand and then came the implements with<br />
special attention to that whip. He took his time with me and explained why it was happening.He also stopped to ask me if I was in agreement with him. I was. I barely made it through the warm up and was trying to be still. He finished with his hand which hurts just as much as the implements. At that point I was crying<br />
and wiggling and trying to stay in position, so when I got out of position he paid special attention to my thighs.<br />
I have asked that since I like to be spanked, he makes sure that they are past my limits. I want to learn from<br />
this and if they are not bad and he is not strict I will end up liking them. I do not want to end up misbehaving<br />
so I get spanked. I much prefer good girl spankings intense but with pleasure mixed in. Punishment ones must be just that. They are supposed to make me not want to repeat the behavior. And last night it hurt. I was sorry and stated so. Then I started crying because I know he hates to hurt me. And why could I not just get it.<br />
And I woke up this morning and remembered that I had not thanked him. So needless to say I am getting ready to make him biscuits and gravy and serve him his coffee. I am going to try really hard to not make the same mistakes I made yesterday . Maybe then I will get the spanking I like. Have a good day everyone!!<br />
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and have our own fireworks show in our own yard.<br />
Grandma and grandpa from both sides are coming over. I love<br />
the 4th. I do not however, love the fact that there are people<br />
out there that think those couple of beers they had earlier do<br />
not count because they also had a meal or a cup of coffee. I<br />
think everyone knows what I am talking about. Drinking and driving.<br />
It is never OK. And if you have a license to drink then you<br />
should be mature and responsable enough not to get behind the wheel.<br />
Having said that I wish everyone a Fun and Safe weekend.<br />
And do not forget to thank our military men and women.<br />
I have to share this story because it really bothered me when it happened.<br />
I was standing in line at a gas station in Vacaville, CA when<br />
a service member from <a class="zem_slink" href="http://maps.google.com/maps?ll=38.2627777778,-121.9275&spn=0.03,0.03&q=38.2627777778,-121.9275%20%28Travis%20Air%20Force%20Base%29&t=h" rel="geolocation nofollow" title="Travis Air Force Base">Travis AFB</a> walked in.<br />
She got in line to pay and out steps another women who<br />
loudly claimed that she was next in line "Sorry". (The service woman mind you<br />
was in full dress did I mention that, duh, that's how I knew who she was.)<br />
anyways, after big mouth pays, respected one pulls out her wallet and realizes that<br />
she can't find her atm card. well the cashier told her to bring the payment back in later<br />
(I think she was a regular) which of course big mouth heard and proceeded to cause a scene.<br />
Stating that she was sick and tired of "people in the service" getting special treatment.<br />
And she probably knows exactly where it is. AND she is worse than a panhandler at least they<br />
really don't have any money. And then started the line about how its the taxpayers money<br />
paying her salary and she won't even pay for her gas.<br />
WOW I can tell you I had not developed my submissive qualities yet (smile)<br />
and after I thanked the service woman for just being who she was,<br />
I turned to big mouth and told her I am so glad I do not have to know you. <br />
And that I hopefully will never have the opportunity to see you again <br />
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I recently had a friend over and the subject of submission came up. Why has it became such a shameful word.<br />
I am not ashamed by the fact that I chose to live my life this way. I think that those of us who chose to let our husbands lead know somethings that others don't. She asked if I was happy and I responded by telling her that sometimes I am so happy and content I want to share it with the world. She also made a valid point about the dangers a <a class="zem_slink" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bottom_%28BDSM%29" rel="wikipedia nofollow" title="Bottom (BDSM)">submissive</a> woman faces. She was also curious about a woman being forced into submission by an abusive husband. I stressed the fact that what we do is consensual and agreed upon. I am the one that brought this lifestyle idea to my husband. I believe though that there are definitely some men that do not deserve a womans gift of submission. DD is not something to be taken lightly. It is not a game. This life if lived right is so rewarding. I would never go back to living a vanilla life again. I know my husband agrees this is like having your cake and eating it too. Of course it is not for everyone and this is just my own opinion and how it has impacted me. I am at my best when I am in a constant submissive state. I will stress also that this only involves submission to my husband. No one else. I trust my husband completely and have no regrets about the choice I make every morning. So many men use their dominance the wrong way. Men and women are very different and men are stronger than us. I personally like to have my strong dominant husband leading my down this journey called life. I love the fact that my husband will put his foot down and set boundaries for me. I also like the fact that I have rules to follow. I want accountability to my husband and expect that he will properly punish me if I need it. I also know that I belong to him and like to the feeling of being owned. DD fulfills so many of my needs. I am so grateful for the life I live. <br />
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That means we try to spend as much time together as a family as we do apart.<br />
I for some reason was feeling out of sorts on Sunday and Monday and not following the<br />
agreed upon rules we have in place. I was being sassy and I will admit my attitude was<br />
horrible. I would get upset at something and stomp around and then be sorry I was acting<br />
that way the next. I think that should have been a good indication that I was stressed to the max<br />
and could have benefited from asking for a <a class="zem_slink" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stress_%28biology%29" rel="wikipedia nofollow" title="Stress (biology)">stress</a> relief <a class="zem_slink" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spanking" rel="wikipedia nofollow" title="Spanking">spanking</a>. But then again since I was not myself<br />
I figured that my HOH should be the expert mind reader and pick up on the fact that I need an outlet.<br />
Well he did! After securing me by the back of the hair and leading me to bend over the bed I realized<br />
That I should have took out my journal and wrote out what was bothering me and that I really do<br />
not like punishment spankings when I have upset my husband. As I laid there with my face in the bed<br />
I heard him moving things around in his drawer where the implements were and did not even look up<br />
to see what I was in store for. I received 5 strokes with the loopy john thing on each side and then<br />
I lost count of everything else. By the time he finished and took me in his arms to cuddle me I was<br />
sorry, ashamed and more submissive then I have ever felt. I also could not describe the secure<br />
warm, loved feeling that I felt. I am sitting here carefully might I add, but my attitude is great and<br />
I feel like we reconnected last night and I have been renewed. It was definitely transformational<br />
for me and I know that If I want to make the choice to misbehave in the future I can count on finding<br />
myself in the same situation. I love my husband for stepping up and taking responsibility for correcting<br />
and guiding me. And next time I will just ask for a spanking. <br />
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I was in a good mood, a little stressed but still in a good mood.<br />
Usually I can forsee when I am going to be spanked and my behavior changes quickly<br />
so when he told me to close the window my heart dropped into my stomach.<br />
I knew it was not because he was cold LOL. So, I ended up with a hot red bottom.<br />
He took off his belt and made me Assume the position on the bed. Needless to say<br />
I am sitting carefully this morning with a whole new attitude. He also found the loopy john thing we have<br />
and I remember why I need to keep a good attitude. The good thing about it though is I have almost no stress this morning and I am looking forward to car shopping today. <br />
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And its a holiday weekend. My DH told me that we are taking the kids to see Shrek 4<br />
And he is taking me to buy a new cell. Our kids are graduating this week one from Kindergarden and one from 8th grade. Time flies. Tomorrow is my regular spanking day. He is going to try out a new ruler. I do not know how I feel about that yet, but I am sure I will have an opinion come tomorrow night. LOL. I am kind of nervous to tell you the truth. He has become a pretty talented spanker. I was reflecting this morning on my submission and I have came along way. I am proud of myself. I am not perfect but I am doing a pretty good job of surrendering to him. I love the feeling it gives me and the satisfaction of knowing that we share such a special bond. Well I hope everyone has a great HolidayWeekendUnknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2947214084027984091.post-54415534293018837412010-05-27T02:30:00.000-09:302010-05-27T02:30:34.713-09:30Just my ThoughtsI have asked that my husband look at our current situation and refresh<br />
the rules that we have in place. I feel that I have grown as a person and that some<br />
of those rules that we have in place need to be updated. I am currently working on<br />
becoming more organized now that he is gone 14 hours everyday. That leaves me with<br />
more responsibility and I need order. I have never been good at organizing and I am learning<br />
lots of new tips thanks to the internet. I also would like him to be more strict when it comes to<br />
helping me or correcting me I should say. We are still keeping the four D's but there are some more I<br />
think could be of great use to me. Like my time management skills and the way I procrastinate. LOL just to name a few. I like rules and structure and I also like to feel like I am owned. He does a really good job<br />
of owning me so I really can not complain there. I have found myself remembering something that he said to me the night before and smiling or feeling that warm glow that makes me so happy to be a spanked wife.<br />
I feel sorry for the women that have not experienced that feeling. I usually have a smile on my face knowing that we share this wonderful life. I come across women that complain and belittle their husbands and feel sorry that they will probably never feel the deep connection that I feel with my husband. It is to bad.<br />
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I want to lose all control of the emotions and stress that I have built up<br />
over the last few weeks. I need to feel my husbands strength and feed of his<br />
energy. I want to be taken over the edge and brought back renewed. I can not wait for him to<br />
get home. I will make sue that everything is done in the house and dinner is ready.<br />
I need a good cry and I am not afraid to admit it LOL. Then I want to crawl into my husbands lap<br />
and just be....<br />
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Also, time to start assuming the position again.<br />
I am physically feeling eighty percent better and mentally seventy-five.<br />
I am struggling with my feelings about my husband. The miscarriage was something that happened<br />
to both of us, yet I can not express the way that I feel to him. It is not about the words but about my<br />
heart. I can only hope that he will read this and maybe understand how much I love him.<br />
He was the one that I called out for in the ultrasound room when there was no longer a heartbeat.<br />
when they told me that I needed to go wait in the lobby for instructions he led me out the<br />
back exit so I did not have to see anyone.<br />
When nature took its course he gave me space without ever making<br />
me feel like I was alone. He was my rock and he is my everything.<br />
I can not describe this feeling that I have with words. We have not been intimate in weeks<br />
yet he makes me feel desired everyday. And he assures me that I am going to feel like myself<br />
again when I have doubts. He has done all this while starting a new job and commuting 2 hours each way.<br />
He has been more than just my support system heled me out of what could have been the great depression. So, I make his lunch and smile.<br />
I try to have his dinner ready as soon as he gets home.<br />
I try to do extra things however small, to show him how much I appreciate him.<br />
I know that what he did for me that night made the difference in me "being ok" or going off the deep end. I do not think he really knows how serious I am about that. I know that I am loved and that no matter what happens if I need him he will be there. And if he needs me I would walk to the end of the earth for him. I am content knowing that he knows that. And I thank GOD for making him mine. Sorry that was a long post I know, but I still do not think I said all that I wanted to but I hope I got the general idea out. I am ready to resume DD again and will make sure that I give it 110 percent. I am so lucky.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4